DIARY OF DREAMS

  Tis a saturday night, you are sitting all alone in darkness feeling wrecked just because you were not able to hang out with your friends aur meet someone you waited for so long. In a sense lets say you have considered someone as a tool for your happiness. You place an enormous amount of pressure on him to perfectly handle all your difficulties and supply things that are missing in your life. But remember you yourself are the right toolbox that can "fix" what isn't working. That person is not a tool. He is a whole person with his own emotions, struggles, goals, hopes and dreams. Reducing him to a tool for your happiness is objectification and it limits the growth and deepening of your relationship. It is unfair to expect someone to help you become a whole person.  More importantly, we already have everything we need within us to live our best life; we need not look outside ourselves or to anyone else. You cannot wait around for anyone else to bring happiness and exciteme...